Why I'm Atheist, Reason #42

[keilexandra]

Or, more specifically, why I am generally against Christianity (and Islam, for the same following reason) and less so against other religions such as Hinduism and Buddhism.

Christianity doesn't tell impressionable young children, "God most likely exists and created this world and loves you, and here's why." It tells them, "God exists and created this world and loves you, therefore you should glorify Him, and anyone who says otherwise is terribly misguided, therefore must be led to the true path. By the way, if you sin and don't pray for forgiveness, you'll burn in Hell. But if you love God and praise Him, you'll be happy forever in Heaven!" ETA: Because multiple people have missed my point, through no fault of theirs, I am striking this through to mark it as an optional addition, although I still stand by it. But the unstruck section is a valid critique of all Christianity and its hereditary nature.

Monotheistic religions usually leave no room for doubt. And I've always believed that skepticism is healthy, regardless of your religious views--but hey, I'm a pessimist who looks forward to the idea of oblivion when I die. I'm obviously a not-to-be-trusted weirdo.

P.S. Go read Greta Christina's Top Ten Reasons I Don't Believe in God, especially the end of Part Two.

[statement of faith] As always, I am open to polite, reasoned, non-troll/spammer debate.

Comments

[sarahbrand.livejournal.com]

Pretty much all of what Erin said.

I grew up in a pretty conservative family in which everyone was Christian (except for an uncle whom I rarely saw) and I'm agnostic now, leaning atheist. I'm still sorting out all the cognitive dissonance resulting from that - there is a lot about Christianity that is very good, in the deepest sense of the word, and walking away from it is hard. But I know that wherever I eventually land, it will be my own decision, not my parents'.

[keilexandra]

I'm glad that you're able to make your own decisions--very, very glad, even if you ultimately return to Christianity. I respect my mother's decision to believe in God, even if I don't agree with her. But it is that "cognitive dissonance" that I want to save my sister; I guess I feel like she deserves a more privileged upbringing, the privilege of my upbringing--I was raised entirely agnostic in the purest sense of the word, because my childhood world in China was one in which the Christian God was just a Western alternative to Buddha (who is respected and revered but not worshipped). So I suppose I did become an atheist, but I was free to do so without severing the ties of church and engrained Christianity.

Also, see what I said to Erin. XD

[sarahbrand.livejournal.com]

Well, yeah, but the aforementioned cognitive dissonance... actually not that big a deal. After the events of the past few years, the c.d. from trying to stay a conservative Christian would be far greater. (This probably deserves a post of its own.)

Anyway, anyone who chooses to believe something other than their parents' creed (whatever that may be) is going to have the same problem, to some extent. It's not specific to Christianity.

[keilexandra]

the aforementioned cognitive dissonance... actually not that big a deal

That's really good to know. Your previous comment, and my observations of other people, made me think otherwise. One acquaintance has chosen to remain indefinitely "in the closet" because her parents--both devout evangelical Christians belonging to the same local church as my mom--would freak. Badly. And from my glimpses of the church doctrine, I can sort of understand why.

[sarahbrand.livejournal.com]

Your previous comment, and my observations of other people, made me think otherwise

Well... yes and no. To stop believing was as easy as apathy. It's just that sometimes I wish I hadn't. If I still were able to believe in an omnipotent being who loves me beyond measure and has a plan for my life, things might not be better, but at least the bad parts of life would be easier to understand.

My parents were surprisingly cool about the whole agnostic thing when I told them, and it felt unbelievably good to not have to pretend anymore. "Coming out" might not be as bad as your friend thinks. Or then again it might, as I don't know her parents at all.

[keilexandra]

If I still were able to believe in an omnipotent being who loves me beyond measure and has a plan for my life, things might not be better, but at least the bad parts of life would be easier to understand.

And that, I think, is a central reason why religion in general, Christianity in particular, is so prevalent in the world. To be atheist or agnostic takes an expected exertion of willpower for the rest of your life, because you can't depend on someone else, or second chances after death; this one life is all you've got, and your choices are your own.